Find your passion

People come to me almost every day, asking for advice: what they should do, which career they should pursue, what kind of business they should build and in which branch, or what kind of men/women they should look for. I have to say, I’m always hesitating to go into such analysis, mostly because I find it pointless.

A BaZi expert can tell you many things, but they can’t provide you with goals, passion, and inner drive; these are things you have to develop yourself. This is also why I rarely do relationship analysis: most people who ask me for it expect relationships to fix all their problems. No, it won’t.

If you have goals and inner drive, then the right man or woman will come. Relationships are the result of our inner drive; they shouldn’t be a goal. The universe will not give you a partner unless you have a job that requires one, whether it’s raising kids, building a business, teaching people, etc. A quality relationship needs a purpose, beyond love and sex; otherwise, it becomes stagnant.

After years of learning, analyzing, and consulting, I realized that I enjoy working most with people who are already driven and have their goals more or less set, but who need some further clarity. Working with them is much easier than with somebody who doesn’t have a reason to get up in the morning.

I often get a question like, Oh, I don’t have enough Wood Element, should I work in the Wood industry? It doesn’t really matter. Ask yourself first, what YOU would like to do, what drives YOU? Once you discover your inner drive, then we can see how to use BaZi Chart information to make your path easier. Connecting with your feelings and inner consciousness is essential to achieving success in life. If you blindly follow what other people tell you to do, you won’t be happy, and indeed, you won’t be successful.

Now, don’t get me wrong: this is not a rant. I like helping people, regardless of their situation, but please do some homework and soul-searching before you ask experts to help you. Meditate, exercise, eat healthy food, detoxify yourself, spend time with your friends and family, and sincerely ask them for help and guidance, without ego or shame. Once you have a rough idea of what you would like to do in life, you can contact your BaZi expert and ask for guidance.

I’m happy to assist.