Jonah Hill – Setting Boundaries

This will be a brief post, just a quick reaction to the controversy surrounding Jonah Hill and leaked texts that he wrote to his ex-girlfriend.

Setting boundaries isn’t manipulation, it isn’t “toxic”, it isn’t misogynistic.

It’s the only way to have an honest and trusting relationship.

Jonah Hill did nothing wrong.

Men should kick a woman to the curb if she oversteps his boundaries. pic.twitter.com/64fFkUlkdT

— Stirling Cooper (@StirlingWisdom) July 9, 2023

In those texts, he sets up certain boundaries; some people agree with him, and some find them controversial or even misogynistic. It’s not my goal here to make a moral judgment but to find how these thoughts and ideas are reflected in his BaZi Chart.

He is a very strong Yang Water Master Element, with a lot of Water in his Chart. There is a Horse (Fire) in his Day Branch, which represents his relationships. This Water is clearly controlling the weak Fire Element, which suggests he tends to be somewhat controlling regarding relationships. I can imagine that women may feel overwhelmed as well when in a relationship with him.

Excessive Yin Water also means that, naturally, he has a lot of competition in his love life. That clash between Horse and Rat is essential to understanding his mindset regarding relationships. The clash usually means that in that particular area, like in this case, relationships, things are not very smooth.