Melania’s silence

Having friends in life is essential, almost everybody can agree on that. Trying to go through life without cooperating, helping, or receiving help from others is extremely hard.

Using the Five Elements BaZi Chart, it’s pretty easy to see whether someone is social or prefers spending time alone, away from the public eye. Of the five Character Components, the BODY component is most important for determining whether someone can interact with others easily.

Melania Trump, the newly crowned First Lady and wife of Donald Trump, the president of the USA, is often scrutinized for her overly closed approach to the media and publicity in general. Her anti-social behavior is so extreme that even paparazzi have given up on her.

TALENTS ANALYSIS

When we look into her Talents and Character Components Chart, we will notice that Competitor Talent is very low, while Self-esteem is entirely missing. Both of these Talents belong to the BODY Component and are essential to a healthy, fruitful social life.

The problem with her Competitor Talent is not just that it is weak and under-performing, but also that it is locked under a lot of Earth Element, which represents her Artist talent. This visualization suggests that she is more concerned about her image than her social life. Melania is also apprehensive about her son, putting a lot of time and energy into his education, which is normal, but also making sure that he is far from cameras as well. Earth represents kids in her Chart, and it’s robust; therefore, it’s no surprise that her son is more important to her than social life. In one way, her son is her social life; it is the most influential aspect in her Chart.

The Water Element is also blocking her social skills, and in her case, Water is related to relationships, her husband. So it could also be that Donald Trump doesn’t want or like her to have a busy social life.

INTROVERT FIRST LADY

Melania shows clear signs of an introverted personality. People with weak or missing BODY Component are often introverts; they do not like to speak much and have very few friends. Because the Competitor is present in her Chart but far and locked, we assume she still has good friends, though they are probably distant and out of the public eye. All these points point to a typical “princess in the high castle” scenario, where she enjoys all the luxury but is cut off from everyday human interactions.

Although she has spoken about getting involved in specific charitable projects, as first ladies usually do, so far, there is not much to see. But that doesn’t mean that she is not doing something, just far from the public, that’s the way she likes it.

All this being said, Melania Trump wasn’t always so drastically anti-social. From age 16 to 46, she was under the influence of the Fire Element, which can draw her Competitor out, making it more visible and active. Just around the time when Donald Trump started to get all the attention during the presidential race, her Fire period was over, and she went into a deep introvert state, after decades of active public life. The situation for her is even more difficult, given the attention she is now receiving, now that Donald Trump is president.

This problem will persist for another 8 years at least, so we can say that Melania is well on the way to being one of the most introverted First Ladies in recent history.