There is no need to despair over your bad BaZi chart

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Since I started learning about BaZi, consulting and teaching others, I faced the ultimate question many times: What should I do if my BaZi Chart is bad? Am I doomed?

Have to admit, it’s hard to accept when you realize that a wrong date and time of birth has so much influence over your life. If the Chart is especially bad, some people fall into profound despair.

INITIAL SHOCK

I remember realizing, for the first time, significant flaws in my Chart. It took me several weeks, even months, to accept and proactively deal with them. We hear all the time, from various gurus, that we are in control of our lives, that we can be whatever we want, which is essentially true, but it is not that simple. People have certain limitations, determined by date and time of birth, but also their parents’ genes, but that’s another story.

It took me some time to come to peace with my flawed Chart, mostly by realizing that behind every Chart and human being, there is a purpose.

Once you learn more about your Chart, its dynamics, and its flaws, you are reminded every day that you lack something that maybe others have, but also that you have something others don’t. I imagine BaZi charts as software that must be used alongside other software. So, for example, if you have a Chart with too much Metal Element, and you lack Fire to use it. You can team up with somebody who has Fire and build something together.

This is why relationships and business partnerships are so meaningful. Our partners can provide what we need, and we can, in turn, provide what they need. Once you put these two pieces of software together, you get a much larger system that can do far more than two individuals on their own.

The key to overcoming our Chart weaknesses is to be open to possibilities, meet people, do things, and fail repeatedly; in this process, you will learn more about yourself and what you need. You will become more transparent about your strengths and weaknesses, so you can find the missing piece that will finally complete you.

RELAXATION AS CHART MEDICINE

Relaxation and meditation, like those you can find on our Mind Hero app, can also provide tremendous help in balancing our charts. By relaxing, we balance our energy and smooth those rough edges, making our interactions with others easier. A bad Chart often muddies our minds; we become unsure of our goals and needs, but with relaxation, we can gain that much-needed clarity.

Regardless of how bad your Chart looks, there are people out there who need what you have; therefore, don’t waste time feeling sorry about yourself. Work on improving whatever skills you have, take care of your physical and mental health, eat healthy, and watch incredible things unfolding in front of you.